Many people use the terms “stress” or “overworked” when asked about their job. I’ll admit I’ve been one of those people from time to time. The last few years, though, I’ve tried to make a conscious effort to see the positive in everything at work — from coworker confrontations and generational gap issues to challenging client requests and policy changes. Sometimes these can be scary, and fear typically leads people to tell themselves a story that bad things are about to happen. They immediately assume the worst. My awareness of this thought process has led me to stop telling myself that story, and before assuming the worst, slow down to consider the positives.
Below are a few philosophies I’ve implemented throughout my career to help me stay positive and make my career a better life experience:

- Work hard when it’s time to work — play hard when it’s time to play. I don’t know where this saying originated, but for me, it was the motto of my college advertising professor. I remember him telling our impressionable freshman class this advice as if it were the single most important thing we would take away. He said it was the philosophy that got him through his many years as an advertising executive, and from that moment on I’ve tried my best to live by it. I’m lucky because at work I not only get to consult and propose marketing solutions to my clients, but I’m privileged to be able to train and mentor others along the way. That balance is very satisfying for me, and that’s the work part. When it’s time to play, I try to go big, typically taking a trip someplace new (far off, when I can) to explore and get away. Hiking and snow skiing are my typical escapes, with the mountains, deserts, and forests as my playgrounds. Extreme sports like bungy jumping, rafting, and mountain biking are always welcome considerations in my travel itineraries. If I can’t go big, I try to find time to hike the elaborate cornfields of Iowa. Okay, that’s not true (mainly because I fear snakes and moving combines), but I do try to find excursions around the region to experience new things.
- Don’t nibble. Again, I’m not privy to the exact origins of the Nibble Theory, but I know it dates (more…)

Demi Moore, Ann Taylor, and the ethics of photo alteration.
It’s that time of year. Time when grown men (and, increasingly, women) gather to divvy up NFL stars in the annual embrace of the inner stat geek in all of us we call fantasy football. I’m somewhat embarrassed to say I enjoy fantasy football. It makes the games more interesting to watch, provides a platform for harmless trash talk and gives my inner stat geek a hug every Sunday.